काँच की बरनी और दो कप चाय - एक बोध कथा

काँच की बरनी और दो कप चाय - एक बोध कथा

जीवन में जब सब कुछ एक साथ और जल्दी-जल्दी करने की इच्छा होती है, सब कुछ तेजी से पा लेने की इच्छा होती है , और हमें लगने लगता है कि दिन के चौबीस घंटे भी कम पड़ते हैं, उस समय ये बोध कथा , "काँच की बरनी और दो कप चाय" हमें याद आती है ।
दर्शनशास्त्र के एक प्रोफ़ेसर कक्षा में आये और उन्होंने छात्रों से कहा कि वे आज जीवन का एक महत्वपूर्ण पाठ पढाने वाले हैं...उन्होंने अपने साथ लाई एक काँच की बडी़ बरनी (जार) टेबल पर रखा और उसमें टेबल टेनिस की गेंदें डालने लगे और तब तक डालते रहे जब तक कि उसमें एक भी गेंद समाने की जगह नहीं बची...
उन्होंने छात्रों से पूछा - क्या बरनी पूरी भर गई ?
हाँ... आवाज आई...
फ़िर प्रोफ़ेसर साहब ने छोटे-छोटे कंकर उसमें भरने शुरु किये, धीरे-धीरे बरनी को हिलाया तो काफ़ी सारे कंकर उसमें जहाँ जगह खाली थी , समा गये, फ़िर से प्रोफ़ेसर साहब ने पूछा, क्या अब बरनी भर गई है, छात्रों ने एक बार फ़िर हाँ.. कहा
अब प्रोफ़ेसर साहब ने रेत की थैली से हौले-हौले उस बरनी में रेत डालना शुरु किया, वह रेत भी उस जार में जहाँ संभव था बैठ गई, अब छात्र अपनी नादानी पर हँसे... फ़िर प्रोफ़ेसर साहब ने पूछा, क्यों अब तो यह बरनी पूरी भर गई ना ? हाँ.. अब तो पूरी भर गई है.. सभी ने एक स्वर में कहा..
सर ने टेबल के नीचे से चाय के दो कप निकालकर उसमें की चाय जार में डाली, चाय भी रेत के बीच में स्थित थोडी़ सी जगह में सोख ली गई...
प्रोफ़ेसर साहब ने गंभीर आवाज में समझाना शुरु किया - इस काँच की बरनी को तुम लोग अपना जीवन समझो... टेबल टेनिस की गेंदें सबसे महत्वपूर्ण भाग अर्थात भगवान, परिवार, बच्चे, मित्र, स्वास्थ्य और शौक हैं, छोटे कंकर मतलब तुम्हारी नौकरी, कार, बडा़ मकान आदि हैं, और रेत का मतलब और भी छोटी-छोटी बेकार सी बातें, मनमुटाव, झगडे़ है..अब यदि तुमने काँच की बरनी में सबसे पहले रेत भरी होती तो टेबल टेनिस की गेंदों और कंकरों के लिये जगह ही नहीं बचती, या कंकर भर दिये होते तो गेंदें नहीं भर पाते, रेत जरूर आ सकती थी...ठीक यही बात जीवन पर लागू होती है...यदि तुम छोटी-छोटी बातों के पीछे पडे़ रहोगे और अपनी ऊर्जा उसमें नष्ट करोगे तो तुम्हारे पास मुख्य बातों के लिये अधिक समय नहीं रहेगा... मन के सुख के लिये क्या जरूरी है ये तुम्हें तय करना है । अपने बच्चों के साथ खेलो, बगीचे में पानी डालो , सुबह पत्नी के साथ घूमने निकल जाओ, घर के बेकार सामान को बाहर निकाल फ़ेंको, मेडिकल चेक- अप करवाओ..टेबल टेनिस गेंदों की फ़िक्र पहले करो, वही महत्वपूर्ण है... पहले तय करो कि क्या जरूरी है... बाकी सब तो रेत है..
छात्र बडे़ ध्यान से सुन रहे थे.. अचानक एक ने पूछा, सर लेकिन आपने यह नहीं बताया कि "चाय के दो कप" क्या हैं ?
प्रोफ़ेसर मुस्कुराये, बोले.. मैं सोच ही रहा था कि अभी तक ये सवाल किसी ने क्यों नहीं किया... इसका उत्तर यह है कि, जीवन हमें कितना ही परिपूर्ण और संतुष्ट लगे, लेकिन अपने खास मित्र के साथ दो कप चाय पीने की जगह हमेशा होनी चाहिये । अपने खास मित्रों और निकट के व्यक्तियों को यह विचार तत्काल बाँट दो..मैंने अभी-अभी यही किया है.. :)

Hmmmm....

tanha tanha yaha pe jeena ye koi baat hai....

Few Definitions

School: A place where Papa pays and Son plays.
Life Insurance: A contract that keeps you poor all your life so thatyou can die Rich.
Nurse: A person who wakes u up to give you sleeping pills.
Marriage: It's an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degreeand a woman gains her masters.
Divorce: Future tense of Marriage.
Tears: The hydraulic force by which masculine willpower is defeated byfeminine waterpower.
Lecture: An art of transferring information from the notes of the Lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through "the minds ofeither"
Conference: The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present.
Compromise: The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybodybelieves he got the biggest piece.
Dictionary : A place where success comes before work.
Conference Room : A place where everybody talks, nobody listens andeverybody disagrees later on.
Father: A banker provided by nature.
Criminal: A guy no different from the rest....except that he gotcaught.
Boss : Someone who is early when you are late and late when you areearly.
Politician : One who shakes your hand before elections and yourConfidence after.
Doctor : A person who kills your ills by pills, and kills you by bills.
Classic: Books, which people praise, but do not read.Smile: A curve that can set a lot of things straight.
Office: A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.
Yawn: The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth.
Etc.: A sign to make others believe that you know more than youactually do.
Committee : Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.
Experience : The name men give to their mistakes.Atom Bomb: An invention to end all inventions.
Philosopher: A fool who torments himself during life, to be spoken of whendead

4 my special friend

Everyone should have

A friend like you

You are so much fun to be with

And you are such a good person

You crack me up with your laughter

And touch my heart with your kindness

You have a wonderful ability

To know when to offer advice

And when to sit in quiet support

Time after time

You have come to my rescue

And brightend so many

Of my routine days

And time after time

I've realized hao fortunate

I am that my life includes you

I really

Do believe that

Everybody should have a friend like you

But so for it look like

You are one of a kind!!!

Now Come 2 Know d Fact......

I always wonder why people look like mad when they r in love or commited with anyone....
but the fact is now come very close 2 me n i can understand it very well... n my poem lines is also best suited 4 it..
......... kyu nahi aata hai chain dil bekarar rahata hai.
.........Har waqt har ghadi kisi ka intazaar rahata hai..
hmmmm..... so this is d resion.
alw waiting 4 that some one special, only a small Hi.. can make u happy, all tension of whole day
and all worries goes off being in touch with that special someone.... it's ture, u realise if u don't understand it now, as i also same like u all previously but "mera sach se samana ho gaya hai...."
ha ha ha.... hey no need 2 laugh yaar just imagine it n then feel it with true heart.
Every good morning make ur day as special as never come in ur life before n good night, what 2 say yaar so sound sleep n fresh in morning also for listen that sweet voice again.
it's also true that u don't have words alw to speak or listen but being in touch with that silence also makes u happy, evry small incident, every small things connected with that some one makes u happy n fresh as never before.
alw try to stolen some movement 2 being in touch by any means is now become habit, it doesn't mean how busy u r in day alw have some mins to talk.
talk, laugh 2gether, make joke of any one or anything all r just amazing in this feeling.........
alw think 2 dedicate every thing 2 her, give her evrything in life any thing she just open 2 speak n she find that thing at that same movement. walking having hand in hand is so special thinking this journey should not stop anywhere.
and those few pet lines ............. hmmmmmm.... sorry i can't say it....
here lots 2 understand, be in love n sure u will discove those words n sweet lines

I saw a dream....."appraisal letter"

On a dark and foggy night, a small figure lay huddled on the railway tracks leading to the Bangalore station. At once I was held back to see someone in that position during midnight with no one around. With curiosity taking the front seat, I went near the body and tried to investigate it. There was blood all over the body which was lying face down. It seemed that a ruthless blow by the last train could have caused the end of this body which seemed to be that of a guy of around my age. Amidst the gory blood flow, I could see a folded white envelope which was fluttering in the midnight wind. Carefully I took the blood stained envelope and was surprised to see the phrase "appraisal letter" on it. With curiosity rising every moment, I wasted no time in opening the envelope to see if I can find some details about the dead guy. The tag around the body's neck and the jazzy appraisal cover gave me the hint that he might be a software engineer. I opened the envelope to find a shining paper on which the appraisal details where typed in flying colors. Thunders broke into my ears and lightening struck my heart when I saw the appraisal amount of the dead guy!!!!! My God, it was not even, as much as the cost of the letter on which the appraisal details were printed.... My heart poured out for the guy and huge calls were heard inside my mind saying "no wonder, this guy died such a miserable death"... As a fellow worker in the same industry, I thought I should mourn for him for the sake of respect and stood there with a heavy heart thinking of the shock that he would have experienced when his manager had placed the appraisal letter in his hand. I am sure his heart would have stopped and eyes would have gone blank for few seconds looking at the near to nothing increment in his salary.
While I mourned for him, for a second my hands froze to see the employee's name in the appraisal letter... hey, what a strange co-incidence, this guy's name is same as mine, including the initials. This was interesting. With some mental strength, I turned the body upside down and found myself fainted for a second. The guy not only had my name, but also looked exactly like me. Same looks, same built, same name.... it was me who was dead there!!!!!!!! While I was lost in that shock, I felt someone patting on my shoulders. My heart stopped completely, I could not breathe and sprung in fear to see who was behind......... splash!!! Went the glass of water on my laptop screen as I came out of my wild dream to see my manager standing behind my chair patting on my shoulder saying, "wake up man? Come to meeting room number two. I have your appraisal letter ready"

Training at CMC............. UNIX

Come to know in this year v got opportunity to go for training on UNIX. Woow it great coz after such a long time v got this offer now. so v r having 5 days in hand for full Masti.........
Days start..... n masti begins as on first day v reached late by 1:30 as got stuck in traffic and also confused about way to community center as i know about distric center n v reach there on time as like sarkari yaar 1 hour late n then take 30 min in searching for block C shahpuri building.
training is on 9th floor n there 3 lift for it but by mistake v take wrong one n then go on 5 then back again on 4th n back coz when i press 9 it's doesn't show red mark on it, i ask it but no body correct me after that a nice man told us n v change life to go on 9th floor, there again on reception man told us to go one floor down for classes, ohh bad again a floor down n also on reception no one good looking who suggest us to do this, in CMC i thought v find some better one, better then CRIS reception atleast but ohh GOD...........
Before entering in Class make us fresh n slowly open d door.... Nazare mili dil dhadaka meri dhadakan ne kaha..... kaun kaun hai??? there a seat vacant but in hesitation both me n safi prefer last row to sit n sleep... joking yaar, ab so kaun payega??
it's ok training start n all UNIX cammand once again come one by one in front of us reminding my college days n IIT days n my lovely kanetkar book, in very few time span v come to know that here nothing new for us to learn n knowledge database is also very small to circulate us in these classes. So ab kya kare how v will spend 5 long days here yaar?. kuch to karana padega. something hmmmm something intresting which bind us to enjoy classes n environment.