A Walk with Love in Lots of Love and Frustration.

Today on the day of 12 April 2015, after eating lunch, we just planned an outing in Delhi due to lovely weather and little raining. Took so much time to decide whether we should head and why, we finally came to a conclusion of Purana Quila coz it was little bit near, a good picnic spot with less expense and can save our time to come back home before our maid came for cooking dinner. So we started our journey and reached there at approx 4 pm in the evening.

After taking ticket we entered there and start roaming but for our surprise lots of people there for enjoying lovely weather, most of them were love birds (young couples) every nook and corner of Quila. Our frustration started at the same time when we step in the main garden of Quila, every where the couples were involved in their private work which they should execute in private or at home some where, but they were so free to perform there best everywhere, shameless, manner less, only the thing they have was lots of love and lust, don't know I should say it Love or not coz that was not like love, that was hunger every where, and all want to full their stomach as much as they can. 

We were the Family member with Wife, Kid and mother, really feel awkward on that situation, the main frustration happened when my daughter (4 Year) felt to go loo and I took her to any hidden place or behind any tree, that time I was feeling helpless to find a place for her coz where ever we went two lovely creature of god appear abruptly indulged in love making. All tree shadow or bunches of grass were full of Adam and Eve. At last find a place where she made herself free, may be that place was vacated by some one just before we stepped there and other person have eye on that to occupy after we left that place. 

With family and kid how much trouble you can face, today was the day for me to face all, coz  after some roaming and playing, she again felt to do potty and again a task came for me to find a place but this time I was bit confident to find coz the previous task makes me shameless also for them as if they cant hesitate to do this in front of me then why me, so very soon find a place behind a tree.

Finally the last trouble came as my 2nd daughter (4 Month) felt hungry and wife have to feed her, this time task was bit tough and I failed in that, but pass in other way as made her sleep in my lap and decided to leave that place as soon as possible, as that place was not for family picnic that was the final conclusion we made. After taking some small snacks we head back to home, our sweet home and feel relaxed which we want to took from that place in this lovely weather but return hopeless.

So Delhi, if you want to watch love in the air, and lust on the garden head toward the Purana Quila, there you will find so many Mr X (Imraan Haashmi) and his lovely lady performing their best act to win Oscar in LSD.

Happy Holi 2015

Holi is the time to develop understanding and love for each other.
Here, is a platform for you all to renew your friendship and to express
heartiest love by scribbling a beautiful Holi message for loved ones.

May you have the most blessed holi festival than you ever had.
May it be full of fun,joy and love.
May you be as colorful as the festival itself or even more.
Lets all have lots of fun.

Happy Holi to you and your family. We wish your health, prosperity and business achievements at this prismic colour eve. May Allah bless you with all his mercies! Aamin.

Pyar ke rang se bharo pichkari,
sneh ke rang do duniya sari,
ye rang na jane koi jaat na koi boli,
aapko mubarak ho aapno ki holi.

'Bright colors, water balloons, lavish gujiyas and melodious songs' are the ingredients of perfect Holi. Wish you a very happy and wonderful Holi.

Holi Greetings to all my friends and hindi lovers and learners. Wish you a Happy Holi may your Life fills with colours. 

So Sorryyyyyyyyyyyyy.................!!!!!!!

Today's world 'SORRY' is a word, we always use it either in conscious mind or unconscious mind too. Every time we are ready to be sorry for our work or word but if there is a place where exactly the need of SORRY exist then we hesitate to say or can't say it. that time we would be more worry for our insult or feel humiliated to say sorry.

Why we can't simply understand the exact or correct place to use this "SORRY". Or we are still illiterate about its using. we should learn it as soon as possible, because this is the best way to use and protect our relation, image or social status.

Some time we feels that, we should say sorry but ignore it due to ego or think, without it all will be right with time, or take that person so light or forget to say in searching for best time to say. We think that it's ok all will be fine but in long run that missing sorry can create problem for them, No body is a fool, all know everything and can preserve their pride and emotions or can fight for that, sometimes they can be light or careless but not always, so beware..!!!

Sorry is always better if think u should say and mean it. Never select it on the basis of relation, work, image or anything else, if u really feel u should say so. it will help u to build your relation more firm and strong as before and for always.

Not always being on wrong side you should say sorry, sometimes its special relation specific, in to which u always prefer to say sorry either or wrong side or not, may be other person at present think that u r wrong but with time or after knowing reason they may feel that u was correct and they should be sorry to you, because by saying sorry you have that link open for them to approach u back on any situation.

In one relation you are always on wrong side, so ready to say sorry in every condition and never expect that opposite one came to say u sorry any time. This is Husband-Wife relation, this is the only unique relation in to which Husband is always wrong, so by saying sorry he may get the right to say anything or teach everything to Wife. So always select your word very cautiously so that you can avoid to say sorry all the time and your relation can be so smooth. 

In the last can say this also, that never expect from one to say sorry to you always, because at the end there will be a situation also come when he/she will be fed up to say sorry all the time ether being on wrong side or not. This is the point where the relation goes off and you will not find any link in future to restore it, because u never try to maintain that link from your side. Simply understand that life is a very fast growing process and relation is two sides with unique mobile number, where both side should be communicate and be in sync unless the communication will be broken and after some time that line goes off with mobile number will not exist or change for you permanently.

Confused...????????????

जिंदगी की उथल पुथल में कोई कितना फँस सकता है, अभी तक स्पष्ठ नहीं हो पा रहा है. जैसे जैसे जीवन बढ़ता जा रहा है, उथल पुथल, तनाव, चिंताए, एक अजीब सी उहापोह भरी स्थिति बढ़ती ही जा रही है.

ये समछना बहुत ही मुश्किल होता जा रहा है कि आखिर मैं जिंदगी से या ये जिंदगी मुझसे चाहती क्या है?

संतोष, ये दूर दूर तक मेरे जीवन में कही नज़र नहीं आ रहा, किसी भी काम में, बात में, रिश्ते में, परिवार में, कार्यालय में, दोस्ती में, इक्छा में, सपने में, वर्तमान में, भविष्य में, फ़र्ज़ में, क़र्ज़ में, पैसे से, व्यवहार से, सब हा सब स्थानो पे इसकी कमी है.

क्या करू, क्या न करू? कौन समझायेगा? किस का हाथ पकडू जो मुझे शांति और संतुष्टि की ओर ले जाये. या ये मान कर शांत हो जाऊ की यही जीवन है. जो जैसा चल रहा है चलने दू और मूक बधिर बन कर देखता रहूं।

एक मन कहता है सब कुछ छोड़ छाड़ कर चुप चाप बैठ जाऊ, पर वही दूसरा मन कहता है नहीं, मैं संतुष्ट नहीं तो क्या हुआ कम से कम अपनों को तो हाथ पकड़ संतुष्टि की राह ले जाऊ।  पर यहाँ भी ये तय करना मुश्किल हो जाता है की कौन है मेरा अपना? वो जो मुझे इस श्रिस्टी में लाया, या वो जो इस श्रिस्टी में लाने वालो के कारण मुझसे जुड़ा, या वो जिसे मैंने खुद से जोड़ा, या वो जिसे मैं इस श्रिस्टी में लाया?

मन, आस्था और संस्कार कहते है सब मेरे अपने है, मेरा फ़र्ज़ और क़र्ज़ यही कहता है की मैं खुद को इनके लिए समर्पित कर दू.  पर मानव इक्छा भी तो महत्व रखती है, जो बदले में कुछ चाहती है, अगर मैं खुद को समर्पित कर सकता हूँ तो बदले में थोड़ा समर्पण खुद के लिए चाहना क्या मेरा गुनाह है?

आप सोच रहे होंगे की मैंने शीर्षक में १२ '?' क्यूँ लगाये जब की केवल एक से ही काम चल  सकता था, तो आप की जानकारी के लिए ये बता दूँ की ये "?" उन १२ लोगो की उपस्थिति को दर्शाते है जिनको की मैं अपना मनाता हूँ, या ये कहु की जनके प्रति मेरे मन में विचार उमड़ते है, उनके लिए कुछ करने की चाह हमेशा विदमान रहती है.

मेरे इस गधे रूपी जीवन में सिर्फ इन्ही लोगो का बोछ, भार, जिंम्मेदारी या फ़र्ज़ उठाने का मन करता है। बिना शर्त, की वो मुझे भी कुछ मूल्य दे या ना दे। पर हाँ उनकी एक आवाज़ पर मैं  सहस्र दौड़ पडूंगा।

अब इनमे से मुझे कौन, कितना अपना मनाता है, ये, या तो वो जाने, या भगवान पर, मैं सच में बहुत Confused हूँ. 

!!!!!...Feng Shui Tips 4 Happy Home...!!!!!

Positive Energy is all about a Happy Home, principles of Feng Shui teach us to manage and balance that energy in the right way.

Home is where the hearth is, they say, and to make it even more peaceful and to increase the happiness.

1. The Entrance

The first thing you notice, when someone (or you) enter/s your residence, is one of the strongest filters that your subconscious mind will receive. It is, therefore, important that what you first see is beautiful and refreshing. So, you may put a nice painting, fountain or something visually elevating at the place of entrance.

2. A  Baby's Signal

If you want to buy a new flat or house, you take a new born baby there. If it cries, without any external influence or cause, it means that the house/ premises does not carry a positive energy field. On the other hand, if the baby remains calm and smiles/ plays/ laughs, it indicates that the house/ premises has a good, positive vibe/ aura.

3. The Tibetan Bell

In order to improve the overall energy levels of your house, ring the Tibetan bell around the house every few days. This will make empower the positive energy in and around your house.

4. The Three Legged Toad

Place a model of Three Legged Toad in a way at your home that it faces the main door. This ancient and mystical Feng Shui symbol, which signifies wealth and prosperity, will help you improve your savings, earnings, and thereby, your financial status as well.

5. The Unwanted Guests

Ensure that you never sit with your back towards the main door/ entrance of your home. This is a trick, however, which you can use to get rid of the unwanted guests from your home. You can make them sit on such seats, where their back faces the entrance, and you will see them leaving soon :)

6. Clean the Clutter

Too much of clutter in a home tends to invite or trap  a lot of negative energy. So get rid of the trash. Also, never keep broken or damaged instruments and items at your home, like watches, telephones, mixer, electronic items, ball pens, cassettes etc., for they carry negative energy. Keep getting rid of this junk, and you will see how light and clean your home's aura feels.

7. The Flooring

Check if any tile or an area of flooring is broken. If you find that a part of the floor is broken in your home, get it repaired or replaced, as soon as possible, because the negative energy it spreads may affect your relationship with your family members. If repairing is not possible, you may also put a carpet to cover the damaged area.

8. The Name Plate

Keeping a name plate, clearly written address and number of your property on the outside wall of your home has reasons beyond obvious. As per Feng Shui, this is very important, as it helps direct the opportunities towards your home, and the ethereal opportunities do not miss you this way.

9. The Fish and Water

Feng Shui considers flowing water and floating fish as very important and auspicious symbols, which help reduce negativity and invite positive vibes. However, they need not be overdone or wrongly done. For example, you may place a fountain or a water feature in your home, but it should not be very large, as this can create energy imbalance. If you wish to install a water feature, go with a small size, try to keep the water moving and clean. If you keep a fish tank/ home aquarium, ensure that the water is clean and clear at all times. Also, you may keep a small statue of fish at your home in your bedroom, as this is known to avert misfortune.

10.  The Placement

Try placing your bed in such a way that it does not faces a mirror on the opposite. In short, you should not be able to see your reflection in the mirror, when you sleep. In your kitchen, do not place the stove directly across a sink. The doors and gates in your home should ideally open inwards, and be of the double leaf kind to welcome the auspicious Qi energy. Use a full-height gate in the West to obstruct negative Yang energy. Do not hang a wind-chime over your bed as it may have attracted and absorbed negative energy during the day. Try ensuring that there is no tree facing the main door or window of your home, as it could result into poor health of your family members. Alternatively, you may place a convex mirror on the outer wall facing that tree.

Courtesy Yahoo Life Style.

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती....!!!!!!!

लहरो से डरकर नौका पार नहीं होती,

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती.

नन्ही चीटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है,

चढ़ती दीवारों पर सौ बार फ़िसलती है,

मन का विश्वास रगो में साहस भरता है,

चढ़ कर गिरना, गिर कर चढ़ना, न अखरता है,

आखिर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती. 

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती. 

डुबकियाँ सिंधु में गोताखोर लगाता है,

जा जा कर खाली हाथ लौट कर आता है,

मिलते नहीं सहज ही मोती गहरे पानी में,

मुट्ठी उसकी खाली हर बार नहीं होती,

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती. 

असफ़लता एक  चुनौती है, इसे स्वीकार करो,

क्या कमी रह गई देखो और सुधार करो,

जब तक न सफ़ल हो, नींद चैन को त्यागो तुम,

संघर्ष का मैदान छोड़ कर मत भागो तुम,

कुछ किये बिना ही जय जयकार नहीं होती,

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती. 

कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती. 

Happy Deepawali

Wishing You All a Very Happy Deepawali...

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